It's been great
reading everyone's Christmas traditions on Cheryl's blog, hasn't it! So I thought I'd share mine...
When we first got
married, my poorly paid teacher husband used to bring home one of the Christmas
trees from his school on the last day of term.
Well, it was only going to get thrown away! Yes, even then we were into recycling. Rather than see that tree get sent to landfill,
we put it to good use! Bringing the tree
home always marked the start of the school vacation, and the real countdown to
Christmas Day. I would always string
some lights up in the front window, too, to celebrate bringing the tree home,
which he and the kids could see as they came up the front drive.
And then disaster
struck, in the form of cutbacks. The
school only bought one tree. And the
school caretaker decided it was one of his perks to take it. So we had to go out and buy one.
So the tradition
of bringing home the Christmas tree on the last day of term had to change a
bit. Husband still came home with a
tree, but this time it involved a detour via a nursery on the way home, and getting
out his wallet, rather than a saw (the school tree was always about 12 feet
tall, as it stood in the school hall, and we only wanted the top 6 feet!)
For a while, when
kids were at university, the tradition of buying the tree to mark the beginning
of the vacation altered slightly again.
This time, whichever of them broke up first, got to drive out to the
nursery to pick a tree with their dad.
But they had to wait until both were home until they could decorate
it. I always let the kids loose on the
tree, even when they were so small they needed a chair to reach most of the
branches. I never cared if it didn't
look very elegant, I just loved watching them express their love of
tinsel. The only proviso was that dad
put on the lights first, and made sure they were working. And I put the angel on the top...too high for
either child, and they would have fought over the privilege anyway.
This year, a lot
of our tree traditions seem to have flown out the window. My daughter works in a job not related to
education, so school vacation times mean nothing to her any more. And my son has moved away, and is only coming
home a couple of days before Christmas.
What to do? If I waited until
they were both in town, there wouldn't be any trees left. And if hubby did go out and get a tree, what
should we do about decorating it? It
would look sad, having a bare tree in our house until Christmas Eve. But could my son bear to let his sister
decorate the tree without his supervision?
It is a mark of
his maturity that he gave her permission to decorate the tree all by herself
this year. And a mark of - well, I'm not
sure what - that my husband let me go out and buy a tree instead of going
himself. He still put the lights on
though. And I put the angel in place.
So this year,
Christmas isn't so much about trees, and tinsel and fairy lights, as having all
my family gathered together under one roof, for just a few nights of the
year. That's where the magic will come
from, for me.
Wishing you all a
magical Christmas,
Annie.
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I love your memories. Our family got a few Christmas trees that way when I was a kid, because there was a tree in every classroom, and the teachers gave them away when vacation started.
ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas!
lizkflahertyATgmailDOTcom
nice to hear we weren't the only ones into recycling school christmas trees when we first started out, Liz!
ReplyDeleteI love your Christmas tree tradition, Annie, and your book sounds so good!
ReplyDeleteThanks for hosting the Great Christmas Tree Tour, Cheryl!
Merry Christmas!
Marcy
bmndshuler(at)hotmail(dot)com
Hi, Annie!
ReplyDeleteI think we all started out quite lean when we were first married. Numerous times we bought small trees that we could plant afterward. Then, we went to a small artificial tree. I'm not one who cares for a huge, ostentatious tree. I'm the one that would "adopt" the last little scraggly one. Every tree is lovely with just a few decorations.
I'm looking forward to reading even more of your novels, Annie. I love them!
Wishing you and your family a very Happy Christmas.
Connie Fischer
conniecape@aol.com
Oh, yes, Connie - we had a go at one of those trees in pots you could plant out after! It didn't last long though, just a couple of years.
ReplyDeleteThey can be difficult to get established, I agree. We did plant one many years ago that got really big. Therefore, when we sold our home in Virginia and knew the tree so big that it was hard to view the house from the street, we donated it to the county. They came and dug it up with a huge truck and transplanted it next to the new firehouse. It was great knowing that it was being given an extended life.
DeleteGreat Christmas traditions love them, it is hard when they all change our kids are out of the house now and they have their houses it is all just to hard sometimes to deal with. They came over earlier but it is not the same can't we keep them??
ReplyDeleteLove your book it sounds very nice.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!
bmazur123@aol.com
When I was growing up we had to go out in the thickets and cut down cedar trees for our Christmas tree. We never bought a tree we couldn't afford it. After I got married we bought a couple of live trees and then I went to an artificial tree, because I never had one growing up. Your book sounds awesome, love the cover.
ReplyDeleteOh what an amazing tradition! Loved reading this! I pray you have the glorious Christmas with your whole family!!
ReplyDeleteBlessings,
Gert
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