Friday, May 02, 2014

WRITING FOR THE JOY OF IT: Julia Justiss

Writing has always been an avoidance-attraction thing for me.  I want to write...I have to write, because it's who I am, a writer.  I just don't feel "right" if I'm not writing, giving form to the characters who run around in my head creating stories.

That sense of rightness was reinforced after a serious car accident almost two years ago that left my husband initially totally paralyzed. I suffered a broken arm, which precluded typing for over a month.  But, caught up in caring for him during his slow recovery, with seven months in various hospitals and the adjustment after returning home (praise God, he is now walking, eating and speaking,) I did not write for almost a year.

Compounding all the other weirdness of a life turned upside down, the absence of writing made me feel like there wasn't any "me" left after the accident.

It's still difficult to carve out writing time, with my husband in various therapy sessions four or five days a week, all the additional tasks that need to be done when you are the sole functioning adult in a household and with his aging father to supervise as well.  But nothing else gives the sense of peace and satisfaction of getting words on the page.

It's still hard work, which makes it easy to find good reasons to delay--the "avoidance" part of the equation.  Once in front of the keyboard, re-reading the previous session's work, trying to pick up the thread of the story again, is like starting an old, cranky engine that clanks and smokes and creaks as it slowly gets moving.  But then...after a while, it goes faster and then faster, the ideas flowing out my fingertips.  Sometimes, the work doesn't seem good, the ideas not expressed clearly enough, the word choice wrong.  But sometimes...magic happens.

That's when the JOY erupts, that indescribable feeling I'm trying to describe, compounded of excitement, energy, satisfaction, and a little amazement.  The characters nattering in my head have come to life on the page, telling a story that moves and inspires me and, I hope, will move and inspire readers.

Because the most perfect part of that joy occurs when readers respond.  I don't get a lot of reader letters, but some of the few I've received have made all the work and frustration worth it.  The lady in hiding from her abuser husband who wrote to say my heroine, also an abused wife in hiding, (MY LADY'S TRUST) had given her hope.  The lady with fibromyalgia, in chronic pain, who said my stories take her away to another world and lift her spirits.  (My two latest, THE RAKE TO RUIN HER and THE RAKE TO REDEEM HER.)

Those occasional emails from readers that tell me how much they've enjoyed a book put a smile on my face when I sit down to start up, once again, that old creaky engine.  And remind me of more than why I have to write, but why I do it: JOY.







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Julia Justiss grew up breathing the scent of sea air near the colonial town of Annapolis, Maryland, a fact responsible for two of her life-long passions: sailors and history!

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Thursday, May 01, 2014

Rediscovering the Joy in Writing: Sherri Shackelford


When Cheryl asked me to write a blog about the joy of writing….I was stumped. I wasn’t having much joy in any part of my life at that moment. I was behind on a deadline, I was battling a personal problem, I was feeling fat and ugly. (What woman hasn’t felt that way at one time or another?)

Instead of talking about the joy of writing, I decided to write a blog on rediscovering the joy of writing. 

Five Steps to Rediscovering the Joy in Writing

Writing professionally can be a lonely business fraught with difficulties. Writing a book is a months’ long endeavor, and there are times when it’s difficult to find joy in the process. When I find my enthusiasm waning, I have a few strategies.

My first and best strategy: Remember my purpose. 
People will forgive employers low pay, but they will not forgive a lack of purpose in their work. My purpose is entertainment. I don’t write literary novels. I write books that people can read during difficult times to escape for a brief, light moment. I give people a guaranteed happy ending. When I get a letter from someone saying I gave them a bright moment in a dark day, my purpose is fulfilled.

I take joy in my purpose.

My second strategy: Think like a boss. You’re in charge. In the writing business, it’s easy to get swept along with the tide. Agents, editors and readers all have their own input. Ultimately, you are a small business owner. You are in charge of your own destiny. Don’t forget that. The name on the book is yours. Not your agent’s, not your editor’s and the reader’s.

I take joy in guiding my own future. 

My third strategy: It’s okay to work for money. Really. People do it all the time. Doctors, lawyers, engineers, nurses. They all work for money. It’s okay for authors to make money too. How are we supposed to sit around smoking cigarettes and drinking bourbon if we never make any money?!

I take joy in the fruits of my labor. 

My fourth strategy: When bad reviews, editor revisions and abysmal royalties sap your joy, try to turn your difficulties into opportunities. I know. It sounds like a poster of a cat dangling from a tree ordering you to ‘hang in there.’  But there’s a nugget of wisdom in that poster. If a reaction isn’t working in a scene, you may have a problem with the motivation. When there’s something in your writer life that isn’t working: an agent relationship, a plot…whatever, it’s time to get to work. When something isn’t working, turn the problem inside out and upside down.  Ask for advice from mentors. Don’t avoid the problem, attack the problem. 

I take joy in the challenge.

My fifth strategy: Develop a great support network and invest in that network. No one will ever understand the process like another writer. They are your best source of brainstorming, guidance and commiseration. They will help you through the dark times and share your joy in the good times.  Be a mentor to other writers. Their enthusiasm is contagious

I take joy in my fellow writer-friends. 

I love seeing my name on a book. I’m not exaggerating. I LOVE seeing my name on a book. I love holding one of my books in my hand. I love when the email from my publisher comes through and I see my cover for the first time. I love when the UPS man delivers a box of author copies on my doorstep. I love when my kids take my books to school for show and tell. I’m proud of what I do. 

I am an author.

I take great joy in my calling.

(I am an author--even though I don’t smoke and I think bourbon tastes like diesel fuel)

Sherri Shackelford is an award-winning author of inspirational, Christian romance.

A wife and mother of three, Sherri’s hobbies include collecting mismatched socks, discovering new ways to avoid cleaning, and standing in the middle of the room while thinking, “Why did I just come in here?” A reformed pessimist and recent hopeful romantic, Sherri has a passion for writing. Her books are fun and fast-paced, with plenty of heart and soul.

Sherri is currently working on three more books for her Cimarron Springs series. Her current books include Winning the Widow’s Heart and The Marshal’s Ready-Made Family. The Cattleman Meets His Match releases in August of 2014. 

The Marshal’s Ready-Made Family
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4 ½ stars from RT Magazine, Susan Mobley says, “A lovely marriage-of-convenience story, the interaction between the two main characters is a joy to start.”


Gentlemen don't court feisty straight shooters like JoBeth McCoy. Just as she's resigned to a lifetime alone, a misunderstanding forces the spunky telegraph operator into a marriage of convenience. Wedding the town's handsome new marshal offers JoBeth a chance at motherhood, caring for the orphaned little girl she's come to love.

Garrett Cain will lose guardianship of his niece, Cora, if he stays single, but he knows no woman could accept the secrets he's hidden about his past. The lawman can't jeopardize Cora's future by admitting the truth. Yet when unexpected danger in the small town threatens to expose Garrett's long-buried secret, only a leap of faith can turn a makeshift union into a real family.



Wednesday, April 30, 2014

FIND THE JOY DURING THE MONTH OF MAY!

Get ready! Sherri Shackelford kicks off May's, FINDING THE JOY right here tomorrow! 

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Friday, April 25, 2014

May - Month of Joy!

At the first of the year one of my most important goals for 2014 was to find the joy in all things, and especially in writing. I got a little behind, due to health issues, but I am back on track and excited! Praise God.

During May, I am hosting some of my favorite people and your favorite writers to share how they find the joy in writing.

So stay tuned and follow the blog all month long. I can't wait!


Thursday, April 17, 2014

Milk Chocolate Pots de Crème

Milk Chocolate Pots de Crème

The traditional Pots de Crème dessert is a simple, rich custard baked in small cups. This recipe has the chocolate-cream mixture chilled rather than baked, but the result is the same: smooth, intense chocolate flavor.

Ingredients:

2 cups (11.5-oz. pkg.) milk chocolate chips
1/2 cup light cream
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
Sweetened Whipped Cream (*Recipe follows)

Directions:
Place milk chocolate chips and light cream in medium microwave-safe bowl. Microwave at MEDIUM (50%) 1 minute; stir. If necessary, microwave at MEDIUM an additional 15 seconds at a time, stirring after each heating, just until chocolate is melted and mixture is smooth when stirred. Stir in vanilla. Pour into demitasse cups or very small dessert dishes. Cover; refrigerate until firm. Serve cold with sweetened whipped cream.

Makes 6 to 8 servings.

Sweetened Whipped Cream
Beat 1/2 cup cold whipping cream, 1 tablespoon powdered sugar and 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract in small bowl until stiff. Refrigerate until ready to serve. Makes about 1 cup whipped cream.

This recipe and more at allchocolate.com

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Aaron Montgomery Ward: A Forward-Thinking Man




 


Online shopping. 

No crowds, no icy parking lots, no cranky checkers, no lines, no lugging heavy items to your vehicle. We have a world of items at our fingertips. Nearly anything can be delivered overnight if we’re willing to pay shipping. Our forefathers couldn’t have dreamed of the ease with which we shop today. We are a spoiled generation, and I don’t know about you, but I take advantage of it.

Even as early as the 1800s one savvy businessman was thinking up a way to take merchandise to people across the country.


The Montgomery Ward catalog is known as one of the most influential American books ever published. The Grolier Club stated: "The mail order catalog has been perhaps the greatest single influence in increasing the standard of American living. It brought the benefit of wholesale prices to city and hamlet, to the crossroads and prairie."

Aaron Montgomery Ward was born in Chatham, New Jersey in 1844. His family traveled west to Niles, Michigan in 1853 where his father took up the cobbler's trade. Aaron left school at fourteen to work in brickyards and a barrel factory where he learned his most valuable lesson: "I learned I was not physically or mentally suited for brick or barrel making." Gotta love this guy. He was the Bill Gates of yesteryear.


After clerking at a shoe store and then a country store where he earned six dollars a month plus board, he was ready to go to the big city. Apparently he wasn’t physically or mentally suited for retail work either.

In the 1850s Chicago was home to thirty thousand people and known, none too affectionately, as "The Mudhole of the Prairies." The streets were barely above the level of Lake Michigan and covered with bottomless goo. But by the late 1860s Chicago was teeming with post-Civil War energy. Fifteen railroad lines moved 150 trains a day out of the busy terminals. Like thousands of other young men, Ward arrived in Chicago in 1866 and began work in various dry goods firms, including one operated by Marshall Field. He became a salesman, his income rising to the princely sum of twelve whole dollars a week.

As he made his tedious rounds through the mud in his horse and buggy he took notice of the country stores. While they were friendly places with potbelly stoves and made fine meeting places for local farmers, they were far from friendly when the farmers had to actually buy something. Selection was small and prices were high. The storekeeper was at the mercy of the big city wholesalers. Sort of like American consumers and the oil companies.

Ward considered how he could help the disadvantaged farmer and decided on a mail order store. He would set up in the big city where he could easily reach suppliers and buy in quantity to get the best prices. A catalog listing his prices would be sent to farmers who would then receive their order by mail, cash on delivery. It was not a new idea but the few direct mail firms at the time sold only one or two items. Ward was going to bring the whole store to the farmer.

Ward worked and saved. He talked about his idea with friends and associates. The naysayers claimed he would go broke trying to sell goods sight-unseen to back country folk, but he was not dissuaded. By 1871 he finally saved enough money to buy a small amount of goods at wholesale prices.  As luck (or bad luck) would have it, on October 8, 1871 the Great Chicago Fire engulfed the city for thirty hours. Every building in a four square mile area was destroyed, and along with them…Ward's inventory.

He was not discouraged. By August 1872 he had scraped up money and convinced a few people to join him, raising sixteen hundred dollars in working capital. He printed up a one-page price list and hand addressed the first circulars to the Grangers, a co-operative farm supply organization. One of his earliest pricelists contained 163 items under the banner "Supplied By The Cheapest Cash House In America." Most of the items cost one dollar, even the clothing, a 6-view stereoscope, and a backgammon set.


For most of 1873, Ward's mailbox was bare. By then his partners wanted out, and Ward, who still had his sales job, managed to buy them out of their small investments. The panic of 1873 was quickly sinking established traditional retailers, let alone his radical enterprise. His business was ridiculed by the Chicago Tribune as a disreputable firm "hidden from public gaze with no merchandise displayed and reachable only through the post office." Under threat of a lawsuit, the Tribune printed a retraction. The retraction was added to the next flyer and sales increased.

About this time, ready-made clothing began appearing. It was always believed that no two people had the same measurements, and tailors were needed to make quality clothes. But the crunch for uniforms in the Civil War had demonstrated that certain combinations of measurements could be standardized. Ward told his faraway customers: "Give your age and describe your general build and we will nine times out of ten give you a fit."

Ward, a short, stout man, wrote all the early copy. He always included a message in his catalogs, often educating the reader about buying and selling. "It is best to make your order around five dollars. Shipping charges on small orders will eat up your savings. Consider joining a buying club with your neighbors." How smart was this guy?



As consumers came to trust Ward's unseen store, business grew rapidly. He bound his first catalog in 1874 and in 1875 the book grew to seventy-two pages. Ward began to worry he might become too big and took an ad in Farmers Voice just to reassure his customers he had not lost touch with their needs.



In 1893 Ward sold controlling interest to George R. Thorne who had come on as a partner late in 1873. Ward remained president, but after a while he stopped attending board meetings. The last twenty years of his life were spent preserving the Chicago waterfront as a park for the people. He spent over two hundred thousand dollars of his own money to defend the public's right to open space.



His long-time efforts to prevent the erection of buildings along Lake Michigan won him the title of "The Watch Dog of the Lake Front." At one time there were forty-six building projects planned in the park and he fought them all successfully, losing many influential friends along the way. Finally, just before his death in 1913 he won his final legal battle to forever keep the waterfront an open area. He was sixty nine years old.
 
The Tribune, no friend of Montgomery Ward, wrote: "We know now that Mr. Ward was right, was farsighted, was public spirited. That he was unjustly criticized as a selfish obstructionist or as a fanatic. Before he died, it is pleasant to think Mr. Ward knew that the community had swung round to his side and was grateful for the service he had performed in spite of misunderstanding and injustice."

It was the men and women with unwavering belief in their ideas and innovations that broke ground for the rest of the country. Sears Roebuck and Bloomingdales followed with catalog merchandise, and to this day we still receive catalogs in the mail for seeds, lingerie, hunting gear, and all manner of merchandise.

When you think about it, ebay is a gigantic online catalog with auction sales. Amazon is an amazing online catalog of every book, song, movie etc. available—plus clothing, groceries and nonperishable items (I use their subscribe & save for numerous things), electronics, and the list goes on to infinity. What would Mr. Ward have thought? Craigslist is an online local catalog of the good things people are selling. Have I ever mentioned how much I love Craigslist? Take a photo, post a listing and the next day you have someone pay you to haul your unwanted stuff away. What a deal. I even order photo prints online.



So, how about you? How much shopping do you do from the convenience of your home?

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Tuesday, March 04, 2014

Liz Flaherty's New Book is Free for Kindle!



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The Girls of Tonsil Lake is free on Amazon from March 4-8  Stop by and pick it up. I hope it gives you a few hours of pleasure.


Four women whose differences only deepen the friendship forged in a needy childhood…

They were four little girls living in ramshackle trailers beside a lake in rural Indiana. They shared everything from dreams to measles to boyfriends to more dreams. As they grew up, everything in their lives changed—except their friendship. Through weddings and divorces, births and deaths, one terrible secret has kept them close despite all the anger, betrayal, and pain.

Now, forty years later, facing illness, divorce, career challenges, and even addiction, the women come together once again for a bittersweet month on an island in Maine. Staring down their fifties, they must consider the choices life is offering them now and face the pain of what happened long ago.

Secrets are revealed and truths uncovered, but will their time together cement their lifelong friendship—or drive them apart forever?

Excerpt:  
        I wanted Andie to come to New York, but she didn’t feel up to it. I felt a little shudder go through me when she said that. Andie’s always been so strong, and she’s cancer-free, so I found it startling and frightening when she admitted to feeling less than wonderful. But, as Let There Be Hope shows, cancer changes one in sometimes indefinable ways. Maybe this is one of those changes.
Mark and I visited some islands off the Maine coast once, in our early days. I was so enthralled that he bought me a house on one of them, a little strip of green called, appropriately enough, Hope Island. It reminds me of Bennett’s Island, the fictitious utopia of Elisabeth Ogilvie’s books, except that Hope has all the mod cons.
I love to go there. It’s a place I can be myself with little regard to what anyone else thinks. I sit in my bathrobe on the wraparound porch of the Victorian horror that is my house and drink coffee with Lucas Bishop, our neighbor. I read Jean’s books without worrying that someone will see the covers.
I’ve never taken anyone else—it was Mark’s and my private getaway—but I wouldn’t mind if it was Andie who was there. Or Jean and even Suzanne. Andie and I could work on her book. Jean could cook and keep house since she’s so crazy about doing that, and maybe even spin out one of her romances placed on an island. And Suzanne could...do our hair or something.
We would all be together as we are that single night every year when we drive to the lake and pretend we’re facing down our ghosts. I am a little afraid that the day will come that we’ll have to face them down for real.
I wonder if they’d come.


 

The Girls of Tonsil Lake is Liz Flaherty’s eighth book, and it is no less thrilling than the first one was. Retired from the post office, she spends non-writing time sewing, quilting, and doing whatever else feels good at the moment (like drinking wine on Nan’s boat). She and Duane live in the old farmhouse in Indiana they moved to in 1977. They’ve talked about moving, but really…30-some years’ worth of stuff? It’s not happening! 

She’d love to hear from you at lizkflaherty@gmail.com or please come and see her at:


Thursday, February 06, 2014

Music From the Movies - drawing for a signed book

After I saw Music & Lyrics I sang that ridiculous I'm Living With a Clown Above My Bed forever. Right now all the little girls--and, okay the women--are singing Let It Go from Disney's Frozen. I love the I See You theme song by Leona Lewis from Avatar. What are your favorite unforgettable songs from the movies?

Here's a short list I came up with, but there are a jillion more. Are any of these on your favorites list? Which ones are stuck in your head for life?

* This Old Time Rock & Roll, Bob Seger, Risky Business
* The Time of My Life, Jennifer Warnes & Bill Medley, Dirty Dancing
* Take My Breath Away, Berlin, Top Gun
* Unchained Melody, Righteous Brothers, Ghost
* You've Got A Way, Shania Twain, Notting Hill
* To Make You Feel My Love, Tricia Yearwood, Hope Floats
* Summer Nights, John Travolta, Olivia Newton-John, Grease
* Under the Boardwalk, Bette Midler, Beaches
* My Heart Will Go On, Celine Dion, Titanic
* Pretty Woman, Roy Orbison, Pretty Woman & Warm Bodies

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